In a Silent way

Have you ever realise that the more people say they won't / aren't unconsciously they are the one doing it..
some people may say " i don't care ! " but in actual fact they are the one who really really cares compare to those who says they care..
some people may say " i don't like seeing you crying " or maybe they say " i wont let you cry anymore" but in actual fact they are the one who makes you cry again and again.
some people may say " don't worry your secret is safe with me " but they are the one announcing it..
some people may say " i prefer staying the way i am now " but the next minute they are trying very hard to change their situation
and the example goes on and on..

after listing all those example down, i wonder am i one of them?
i wont deny that I'm not one of them.In fact everyone are in the same situation.
is it because " action speaks louder than words "?
or is it human nature?

look around you, if you once know a person who once talked and comment a lot, however that person starts to comment less or talk less nowadays you might need to just stop your footsteps and check on yourself. ask yourself has anything goes wrong. 1 ) that person might have really changed 2 ) that person might not want to care about you anymore !

sometimes what people tell you or advise you might be bitter to the ear, hurtful to the heart but trust me, is a privilege whereby you could look back and reflect on your own self. asking yourself am i really who he/she said i was?
if you have a heart big enough to accept all those bitter talk and take it as a 'sweet' talk to change yourself to the better, i respect you ! seriously.

if you have a smaller heart which is not big enough to accept all those bitter talk and still think that you are in the right and the other party is in the wrong, never want to accept any explaination, or maybe think you are one of the victim. I'm very sorry for you. cause the day you realise could be the day you lost a friend or maybe someone important.

Words can certainly be agonizing dont you think. sometimes, it even hurts more than physical abuse. it lingers in your head when someone important say hurtful things so bluntly without noticing how much it would affect you deep inside. you tend to over comtemplate it and it'll wound you even more.

Blaming them is not an option. the sense of sensitivity cant be learnt, it only comes from within.

- im not pin pointing who this post is for just a silent thought of mine while driving just now :) -


So, dear everyone we should be alert with everything  that happen around us. Not to make us feel curious with everyone but just "beware". Or just say things out when you really meant it.Other wise you will end up bitting your own tongue because of your own words. owwyeah...you better watch-out before you being WATCHA by somebody..haha
   
 "Sometimes i wish that i could have a sneak peek at my future. like a trailer of Sophia's life or such. lol. then i wouldnt bother twisting my head trying to figure out what will happen next or hurt myself by making the wrong decision. nobody said life was easy, but no one said it would be this hard either."

"Love Me For Who I Am Not For Who You Want Me To Be."  :)) xoxo 

prove it!

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