I choose to be Happy

ITs been like more than years i didnt update anything in here.Not because I had been so busy with my daily routine..but..hmm...its okay..past is past.Immust confess that lately I have not been at my happiest. In fact, these past few months have been very difficult. I am only telling you this because I want to show you what I have learnt. And to wish you a happy, sunshiney day.

Happiness can be elusive... but I have found that through a positive attitude, creativity, friendship and love one can do anything. So here are my tips for happiness:

1.  SMILE!

It sounds so simple but sometimes even when you dont feel like it, turn your mouth into a big smile. This releases chemicals (seretonin) in your brain which makes you feel instantly happier. Plus it brings others joy to see you smiling.

2.  Do something fun and different- that you are passionate about.

Live your passions. Go out for a walk and enjoy nature. See friends and do something you wouldnt normally do. Go to the theatre, cinema, listen to new music. Watch a documentary. Paint. Garden. Cook. Learn to sew. Make greeting cards.   Remember that life is short- and should be enjoyed. So be creative!

3. Spread LOVE. That doesnt have to be romantic love, that can be giving. It can be listening to others, supporting others, raising money for charity, campaigning for justice..... anything. Tell your friends and family you love them and inspire others to love.

4.  Act 'as if'. Act as if you are happy and you will feel happier. The brain can't tell the difference between reality and imagination at times. So act as if, and your body will react!!



What I have learnt mostly is that happiness is feeling happy with yourself. This is harder to be learned. But on this journey through life, we can learn to heal our souls and minds and spread love to others too. Have a blessed day ahead peeps!

Excess baggage of live

All of us have baggage. 

In the journey of life, sometimes, it's better to lose and rid oneself of the excess baggage rather than drag it along and have it weigh you down.

If you try to keep all your baggage, you'll always be in transit; neither moving towards your destination nor enjoying your journey along the way. 

You'll land up paying a huge price. 

So, be a light traveler! Have adventures & enjoy everything that you do; let not your baggage stop you from experiencing all that life has to offer!
love your live to the fullest!! <3


bubble <3

If i were

I have something to share to you..yala..YOU..aihh..sik percaya?oh well percayalah..hehe..
Here  we go..
 I have decided it would be fun to see what it would be like to be different people and what I would do in their shoes.  So, I've made a list of "IF I WERE...."
 
If I were...
A doctor.... (my 1st ambition ..hik2)I would listen to the patients more, you know, actually see how they feel and see if I can really fix it instead of just giving them medicine and blowing them off (I know the doctors  out there are doing the same thing, I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one..kan3 ..all the best to all the doctors in the world. ^^)   



An English teacher....(aha..i will..*fingers crossed*) I would really read through and correct exactly the things I think they should change instead of just giving a letter grade.  I would also respect all different artistic talents and ideas instead of giving a letter grade and no corrections. And last but not least I have set 2 goals for this profession. 
My first and greatest goal is to be the best teacher I can be!!

My second goal is to allow for the growth of each and every single one of my students.

  President/Congressman/etc.... I would put a tax on harmful pollutants to encourage people to buy more environmentally-friendly. Things such as electronics, products made at a plant that polluted the air, produce that flew over seas, and all those things that hurt the environment.So that no more people can say "It's just cheaper this way".

A famous actress/singer.... I would not give into the world of the famous and I would try my best to stay somewhat normal...easier said then done of course, but possible.  I would enjoy this one too.  I think I would be both an actress and a singer, my instrument for on stage and in studio would be my keyboard.<3

A Zookeeper... I'd make sure all the animals were in perfect condition, and I'd probably try and help them escape.  This would probably not be a very good idea for me.  Neither would a pet store owner.

A big business owner... I'd make sure we helped people more and had lower prices! We'd offer tons of sales all the time to anyone- never mind coupons they just waste paper, time, and the company's money.  Everyone would get the sale price.

A person in charge on Sesame Street... I'd make sure the cookie monster was kept.  We can keep the veggie monster too, but I was very upset when the cookie monster was gone. ;)

A worker at a Butterfly Museum... I'd sneak in after everyone had left and I'd just watch all the beautiful butterflies.  I'd have picnics in the room on lunch break and I'd spend a whole lot of time there!

A writer... I'd make sure my book was written in first person (that's my favourite because it's more personal). It would have some sort of romance in it as well as some fantasy and adventure.  I sell it and hopefully it would become a bestseller!

A fashion designer.... I would do everything green first.  Then I would design ballerina- inspired clothing with a touch of France.  You know, pink-y, flowery dresses that some models wear? I love that style and I wish I could get away with wearing that all the time!

A boy :)... I would treat a girl right! I would pay for everything and open doors for her, I'd take care of her, but I wouldn't do everything for her.  

One of those random citizens who refuses to smile... I would smile back when that crazy girl passes me 20 times at the grocery store and smiles at me every time instead of just staring at her blankly like she's stupid, even if I think she is. :P

A ballerina... I'd put my heart and soul into dancing and I'd have a whole lot of FUN..! :P

phewws.....I wish...  :)

Aright peeps..this are all that I can figure out for You. Wish me all the best and I wish You all the best too.

SOMEONE

Everyone is always on the lookout, in pursuit, on the prowl, scouting and searching for 'Someone'.

'Someone'?Who is 'Someone'?'Someone' is a person who embodies all the qualities that one's mind, and always one's heart, personifies to make them 'Perfect' , or 'The One'. They were conjured up from the time one became aware of fairy tales of love, valour, and honour where princes, and now ogres, rescued princesses from fire breathing dragons, or a lifetime of servitude to an evil stepmother.It graduated towards the traits possessed by literary characters from romances and thrillers; each word when spelled out made one's heart beat wildly, or brought a tear to the expressive eye, and heavy heart. Meandering along, voices began to sing in tune, with words that rhymed and sometimes never rhymed, while dancing in coordinated steps with an entourage of dancers, or standing still at a tempo that rose and fell to suit a magic moment. In between, it visualized and was made to seem real by watching actors and actresses who essayed characters that were loved and beloved.Finally, it is now an amalgamation of real men and women, whose personality traits and characteristics, aspirational and actual, positive and negative, that have influenced them in a manner so to speak.Essentially,'Someone' is a soul mate; a soul who is lost and and ready to be found.'Someone' wants friendship. 'Someone' wants companionship. 'Someone' is not afraid to get hurt. 'Someone' is strong. 'Someone' is proud. 'Someone' is eloquent. 'Someone' is adventurous. 'Someone' is full of life. 'Someone' loves to travel. 'Someone' loves to read. 'Someone' is not afraid. Some loves to try new things. 'Someone' loves to laugh. 'Someone' loves to write. 'Someone' is creative. 'Someone' is an animal lover. 'Someone' is not afraid to make a fool of themselves. 'Someone' loves fish. 'Someone' is funny. 'Someone' is successful. 'Someone' loves to travel. 'Someone' wants to have children. 'Someone' loves to bake. 'Someone' is patient. 'Someone' is independent. 'Someone' is respectful. 'Someone' loves to talk. 'Someone' is attentive. 'Someone' is polite. 'Someone' is impractical.'Someone' is attractive. 'Someone' is nutty. 'Someone' is eccentric. 'Someone' loves French Fries. 'Someone' has faith. 'Someone' is interesting. 'Someone' is romantic. 'Someone' is a bookworm. 'Someone' remembers the little details. 'Someone' is animated. 'Someone' loves music. 'Someone' is warm. 'Someone' is passionate.'Someone' wants passion in one's life. 'Someone' is ready to fight, forgive, and forget. 'Someone' is special. 'Someone' is committed. 'Someone' is honest. 'Someone' is different. 'Someone' is normal. 'Someone' is practical. 'Someone' is cool. 'Someone' is cute.'Someone' loves being in love. 'Someone' is looking for love. Just hasn't found it.'Someone' is looking for someone. .

'someone' like me.

'someone' like you

                                                   'Someone' like You. 

'Someone' like Me =)

p/s: dear 'Someone'..do remember that, there is always 'someone' love you. :P

 bubble's heart. <3

once again..the day is safe

When we get hurt, we really can't deny what's inside the way we felt it.. Its actualy feel so relieving when we cried so much instead keeping it.. It is also a way of expresing our emotions..  Well i think life must go on. There'll may be ups and down life  musts continue everyday! Let's keep our faith to God for us to be strengthen our weaknesses.May sometimes we find it hard to forget but i realize that if we don't want to be more affected, whoever hurt you forgiveness is the only key because we live in this world not to be perfct but atleast learn how to forgive and forget
.
As I grow older there are certain things that I slowly understand and realized. We never know what things will be happen to us the next day. In fact, we cannot chose the problems that are coming it's just happen whether your prepared or not.  so it's better to be like a soldier always ready to fight the battle whenever it occurs.

Believing in ourselves and keep positive can really help us to be strong and confident to solve our problems.
Let's make life easy when get's harder. God is always there to us. Have a good day peeps! <3

p/s: keep on loving cause LOVE makes the world go round..  ^^

heart's little bubble <3

i + 1

It's terribly difficult to find someone who completely loves you for the person whom you are. Most of the time, people make ridiculous demands; they expect you to change the little bits of yourself to cater to their wishes. 

What I think is, we all deserve that someone, who will love the good, the bad, the disgusting, the weird bits and pieces about us - being late all the time, not knowing how to play sports properly, not having any talent in particular.

That's someone worth keeping for the rest of your life.

NOTHING LAST FOREVER LETS BE BRAVE AND HAVE FAITH THATS EVERYTHING GONNA BE JUST GREAT!

p/s: tq n sorry.

Heart's little bubble =)

breath in breath out

I'm terrible at making decisions. No, really--one of the worst.(ini seyessss)

The problem is that I see both sides. Of everything. Always. And this isn't even an exaggeration, either. It's true: I'm perpetually, inevitably torn. So when big decisions roll around--the kind that can change my life course, alter my destiny, and quite possibly reshape life as I know it? Well, folks, anxiety doesn't even cover it.

I find myself making list after list, panicked and flustered as I weigh the pros and cons. But what if... And then I could... How about I... But, but, but--on and on, for as long as my mind can stand it, until I finally throw up my hands and say Enough.

And when I reach that enough place--the eventual breaking point where I decide that my sanity is seriously at stake--I realize that I simply have to choose. To choose based on my gut, on my heart, on that tiny little voice that finds the strength to whisper only when all hope feels lost. And then, after choosing, comes the really difficult part--the aftermath, the quiet hours when the weight of a decision can fully sink in. 

It's ongoing, that challenging aftermath. It involves re-choosing, day after day, and accepting the fact that either way--no matter which path you'd picked--you would have been forced to look back and wonder regardless. If you'd settled on A, you would have wondered about B. If you'd opted for B, you would suddenly remember A's appeal. 

Such is life. Such is choosing. And yet--how wonderful it is, and how lucky we must feel, for having a choice in the first place.

P/S:Things happen. You have NO idea what will happen in a week from today or even in a few hours. Chances are something will happen that will knock you down (whether it be emotionally or psychically) but you've just got to pick yourself back up. I know what happened isn't a big deal and I'm pretty sure anyone in my place would have done the same thing. And sure, I'm a little worried about it all and the "What if's" But you know what? You only have one chance to do it, there are risks doing anything in the world. So you just gotta go have fun, right? 

I am, are you? =)

heart's little bubble