Wo de peng you :)

Sometimes you get caught up with things that are sad or stressful like the recent events that have shocked the "nation". And you look for answers that are not there. Things may happen for a reason or they may not have one at all but friends are there. And friendships are there for a reason. This post are made specially to my dear friends...i love u guys so much.thanks for always be there for me. <3

awww..sweet isn't it..but dont get me wrong. he's my super best boyfriend ok..^^introducing to u, my dear best friend; Mr Barry a.k.a B 

my dear babe: Lyne K

once upon a time with Fely and Lyne

my dear friend a.k.a cousins :)) sist Lc Zeus and Mr B

ini lah barisan kita..LOL..this picture was taken during mr Kamal's class..
my deary Kak Azi n Kak Shima..yippieee... :P

:p i like it when Kak Azi start doing the brainstorming session..damn serious weyhh ..:D


A friend is someone we turn to
when our spirits need a lift.
A friend is someone we treasure
for our friendship is a gift.
A friend is someone who fills our lives
with beauty, joy, and grace.
And makes the whole world we live in
a better and happier place.

Dear everyone,do appreciates your friends.

For good times and bad times that's what friends are for...

And don't forget to appreciate your friendships, cultivate them.

And above all remember, keep smiling, keep shining!

with LOVE  bubble xoxo <3

Risk- take it or leave it

I've always loved fairy-tales, not for the happy ending, but the great love story it tells of sacrifice and risks. 

“Cinderella walked on broken glass, Sleeping beauty let her whole life pass by, Belle fell in love with a beast, Pocahontas risked her life for a feast, Jasmine could have had anyone but she chose a poor man, and Ariel, she walked on land,Snow White being innocent and down to earth make nature loves her ” 

 Many people dislike fairytales because it makes us believe in love, believe that a prince will swoop down and save us when something goes wrong. But I’ve come to realize that in every fairytale-like movie, every girl took a risk. Took a risk for love, took a risk in the name of love. 

So, how do we know if our own fairytale won’t really happen if we don’t try, if we stop believing in love? 

I know it’s hard for some of you to put down their guard and to learn to trust someone else sometimes. I know because I’ve been through it. People like us, we distance ourselves from people we genuinely like just because we are afraid to get hurt. But does building up these walls ultimately saves us from hurting? 

It doesn’t. 

We've got to know that these people, the people we are blocking out because of our own insecurities, will leave someday too. Leave for something better. Everyone will cause you pain and hurt and tears, but you have to decide who’s worth it.Dear everyone,If you don't take these risks you will always, always end up wishing you had. Our biggests regrets are not things we did but things we didnt do.There's so many possibilities of things going wrong, and what ifs...but just try to stay positive yeah! :)) And when you make that decision, happiness will come to you. =)

  "Good fairy-tales are not "sweet". They´re beautiful and breathtaking and hopegiving..."

Snow white was my favorite character because she's cute ^_^ 

p/s: Simple and sensible. Keep on living the good life. :)


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Trust:beautiful Or beauty-Fool

It's known to be that trust is the base of any sort of relationship, be it love or friendship.

I trust the people i know, never fully trust them though, any of them, but i do, even a little.

To the people that i've just met, i often give them the benefit of the doubt to be on the safe side till a certain period of time where i would develop trust towards them.

This often gets me into trouble. in the end, no good ever come out of it. either i get my heart shattered into pieces in love, or i get stabbed in the back the moment i look away in friendship.

The thing about trust is that it takes a whole lot of time to build, but it takes the littlest action that indicates cheating or betrayal to lose the trust you've successfully built.

As for me, once my trust is gone, it never comes back.

I don't really believe believe in second chances, but i do know in some cases it count.But i'm also a firm believer of the fact that it will never be the same again once the solid trust is cracked.

Dear everyone,It takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.so once you have given the trust keep it safe,because once you drop it will break the whole figure of trust.might can be fixed but it will never be the same.so handle it with care peeps.. ^_^

“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you"

“Trust is like a vase.. once it's broken, though you can fix it the vase will never be same again.”

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just another day

"All things in life change, it happens with valid reason so if you doubt why it happens to you, stick to this: we can never learn to be brave and patient if there’s only joy in the world”

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Those 3 magic word.

The reason
that those three words –
‘I LOVE YOU’ –
are so hard to say

is because
every one of us
from the moment
we are born
begin learning, seeing,
experiencing and understanding
that frightening feeling.

We see the untainted,
the ungiven, and the rotten
forms of that gift.

We see life fade.

We learn that all flowers
must bloom and grow and then wither.

We come to understand
the terrible impermanence of living,
and the hollow burden of fear.

Yet we, all of us, know
that the love we speak
can never compare
to the love we give.

For gifts given, wrapped
in fickle words and paper
will never outlast

the unspoken gifts of the heart.

P/s : "love is a strong word so if u dont mean it then dont say it!!" 

Dear everyone,Do think deeply before u say it out owk.. :))

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tell me I am worth it

"Suddenly, I knew what I had to do. Love isn't about ridiculous little words. Love is about grand gestures. Love is about airplanes pulling banners over stadiums, proposals on jumbo-trons, giant words in sky writing. Love is about going that extra mile even if it hurts, letting it all hang out there. Love is about finding courage inside of you that you didn't even know was there."Little Manhattan

Loving is a process like growing up, it progresses. We grow up understanding more and being more arouse with surroundings. From young, we only knew Love is for the Love for basic necessity of growing up, like milk and probably the pacifier. Then we grew older by learning Love is the care and concern that parents give their child unconditionally. As we grow older, Love becomes more cliche and takes the form of simply almost anything - from holding hands to kissing to sexual.

I don't know what goes further than here, and I've yet to experience it myself. Love is just something that people sacrifice their blood and sweat to hunt for it. But in the first place, is it huntable, or has it always been there and that you just made it lost its meaning.

What does Love mean to you? Just companion or something unexplainable? Even being in a love-triangle, doesn't mean it's wrong to love. It's probably just wrong timing . It's still LOVE

p/s: maybe soon..

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Sooner Or Later

Sitting in front of my dear lappy for about an hour, doing nothing but with zillion of thought running out my mind. *sigh* so much thing to define (yerr..busy otak eh..haha) all of the sudden this issue pop-out  from my tiny little brain ( i think it's little because i have a small size head ..LOL)..yeah INSECURE AND SECURE. being used to this words before..and when 

You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now.You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren't really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you.

You look stuff that u handling with, and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you.Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't.

One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure.You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused.

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lie in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person.

And when you think getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic.

You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision.You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself, and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender! What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it.

We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.

Dear everyone, it is ok to have these feeling at least this shows that our brain is functioning well to think about the stuff that we dealing with in life. but too much of  feeling insecure can kill us slowly. woo...sound like a serial killer huh..yeah  it's a type of sickness..it is..too much will lead to damages.so, just try to put up some positive thought to cover it up ok! :)) 

take it easy, the sun will shine again ^_^

till then... 

"don wait until its too late

don wait until its gone

don wait until there's no turning back

love is... all you wanted it to be.."

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In a Silent way

Have you ever realise that the more people say they won't / aren't unconsciously they are the one doing it..
some people may say " i don't care ! " but in actual fact they are the one who really really cares compare to those who says they care..
some people may say " i don't like seeing you crying " or maybe they say " i wont let you cry anymore" but in actual fact they are the one who makes you cry again and again.
some people may say " don't worry your secret is safe with me " but they are the one announcing it..
some people may say " i prefer staying the way i am now " but the next minute they are trying very hard to change their situation
and the example goes on and on..

after listing all those example down, i wonder am i one of them?
i wont deny that I'm not one of them.In fact everyone are in the same situation.
is it because " action speaks louder than words "?
or is it human nature?

look around you, if you once know a person who once talked and comment a lot, however that person starts to comment less or talk less nowadays you might need to just stop your footsteps and check on yourself. ask yourself has anything goes wrong. 1 ) that person might have really changed 2 ) that person might not want to care about you anymore !

sometimes what people tell you or advise you might be bitter to the ear, hurtful to the heart but trust me, is a privilege whereby you could look back and reflect on your own self. asking yourself am i really who he/she said i was?
if you have a heart big enough to accept all those bitter talk and take it as a 'sweet' talk to change yourself to the better, i respect you ! seriously.

if you have a smaller heart which is not big enough to accept all those bitter talk and still think that you are in the right and the other party is in the wrong, never want to accept any explaination, or maybe think you are one of the victim. I'm very sorry for you. cause the day you realise could be the day you lost a friend or maybe someone important.

Words can certainly be agonizing dont you think. sometimes, it even hurts more than physical abuse. it lingers in your head when someone important say hurtful things so bluntly without noticing how much it would affect you deep inside. you tend to over comtemplate it and it'll wound you even more.

Blaming them is not an option. the sense of sensitivity cant be learnt, it only comes from within.

- im not pin pointing who this post is for just a silent thought of mine while driving just now :) -


So, dear everyone we should be alert with everything  that happen around us. Not to make us feel curious with everyone but just "beware". Or just say things out when you really meant it.Other wise you will end up bitting your own tongue because of your own words. owwyeah...you better watch-out before you being WATCHA by somebody..haha
   
 "Sometimes i wish that i could have a sneak peek at my future. like a trailer of Sophia's life or such. lol. then i wouldnt bother twisting my head trying to figure out what will happen next or hurt myself by making the wrong decision. nobody said life was easy, but no one said it would be this hard either."

"Love Me For Who I Am Not For Who You Want Me To Be."  :)) xoxo 

prove it!

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Maybe Not Now or Forever Not

   LOVE. Is a simple word with four letters that is very complicated but yet so wonderful. It is beautiful...and it hurts. It look simple but actually it is hard.It usually comes unseen..but we can feel it and make us felt just awesome,but we'll feel the pain when it's gone.LOVE is like a book,the further we get into it the more it make sense to us. Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quite understanding, mutual confident,sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less and perfection and makes allowances for human weakness. 

LOVE. Is contain with present,it hope for the future and it's doesn't brood over the past. It's the day-in and day-out chronicle of irritations,problems,compromises,small disappointment,big victories and working towards common goals.

If you have LOVE in your life,it can make up for a great many thing that had missing. If you don't have love in your life,no matter what else there is,it's not enough.

   

 When you love someone and they break your heart, don’t give up on love, have faith, restart!! Sometimes love can start out with a half hearted soul but come back into a full hearted human being… other times a wrist cut too deep is just a heart broken too many times. 

LOVE is most beautiful thing to happen in one’s life,if all goes right,but is the ugliest thing to happen…if happen,and you cant get it.

Dear everyone,take note that true love never dies, it only gets stronger with time.

at last..No matter how badly I got hurt in the past, they're all past tenses now. I am created BY love,created IN love,created TO love. dear everyone, just love while you can and give the best for LOVE.

weeewiittttt.. "I'M LOVIN IT"   ^_^okay peeps..thats all for now. i'll try my best to post something much better time to time. so just stick around ya! :)) XOXO

"Live to the Fullest in all You do. Laugh often and much,especially in difficult times to put You Through. LOVE with all your Heart and it will be return"

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Start A New...

Hello Bloglines...
Sophia own a blog? for real....? again?..is this for real...? LOL...
yeah..just trying to do it again.hopefully this time it will be forever.. *finger cross*
I decided to blog just to remind me about all great things in my life. No negativity yeah. :)
Till then...... 


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